Thank you! He told me today that he got a great job (he's only emailed since I blocked his number so he can't text) and that he's going to start paying the loans he left me with. I immediately got upset because it's like he lied, stole, probably cheated and just left the state and is starting all over. No accountability whatsoever. I need him to have a job so that he has to pay the terms of the divorce...but something just enraged me when I read the email. Like "hey, my life is great, and I'm not going to acknowledge all of the pain and wreckage I caused!". It made me sick to my stomach. No repercussions at all. As usual.