Lilly, I relate to your post. The visitors are often treated like criminals. The fact that this violence is happening in a county jail doesn't surprise me either. Sometimes they are actually worse than the State prisons. "The degree to which a society is civilized can be judged by entering it's prisons" is a famous quote by a pastor. It's good that your husband has learned the unwritten rules inside. It will go a long way in his incarceration.