JD as much as you may not like it, he's family and presumably you will be spending many more holidays, etc with him in the future. The fact that he called and apologized and extended the olive branch I think says something good about him. We've all said things that we regretted when we drank. I would cut him some slack, and let him know you're there if he ever wants to talk. You took the high road and turned the other cheek, which is awesome. I can't speak for you, but I would bury it and welcome him with open arms next time you see him.