I am still struggling with this break-up while working on maintaining my sobriety. I know that this is related to my codependency issues. It is so hard for me to let people go. I usually hold on to the bitter end no matter how much damage it does to me. I want this time to be different, I want to move on and put myself first. He has been texting me about every 12 hours, baiting me with the things he thinks I want to hear. It is hard for me to stop thinking about him and his personal problems. I can't fix him and I need to let him go and focus on my own healing. But it is so much easier said than done. It is like I am craving that feeling of being connected with him.