Originally Posted by
anyistoomuch 
Sounds just like my irish catholic mom and so many others I know of - they love jerking around the feelings of their daughters (sons seem to get a pass at this).
Word.
Although it is hurtful, like others have written, I'd also feel a sense of relief. Now, you can enjoy the holidays sober and without that kind of drinking pressure and environment. Focus on creating a healthy sober holiday, and you'll enjoy yourself so much more!