I have a NPD in the family, my mom, and it is a curse. Probably componants of BPD too. It's a nightmare and it's constant. The twistedness has no boundaries. I am praying for those of us who have to deal with this. It's really bad. I'm trying to find a sense of humor about it, but I don't seem to be able to right now. Thanks for sharing. I'm not alone with this.