Originally Posted by
lovefirstalways 
I know he's not cheating- and it's not because I'm blind or dumb. When he is home for the weekend, he goes through a 1.75 liter bottle of Bacardi in two days.
Having been in a prior non-married relationship that ended because I caught him cheating, it took me a while to realize that even though the man I married could be trusted to not actually have sex with another woman - he was in another way cheating on me. He was cheating with alcohol and porn.