keepinitreal...does he have a specific date/time and location of said 14 month rehab? like Jan 2, be at <<fill in the blank>> by 2pm with suitcase??? otherwise that opened ended after the holidays can stretch into weeks and months and next thing ya know.....
you can only control your stuff. i don't think it's wrong to "hope for the best but be prepared for the worst" in a case like this. eyes wide open. make sure YOU will be ok regardless of what he does. financially, emotionally, mentally. we battle fear by having a plan, a clearly conceived plan. we get our ducks in a row, chart our course, and all that.