Tx, I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter! It makes us feel so helpless and defeated when we can't help our kids.she sounds like she's in the same mentality my daughter was in (until jail). This is what she told me yesterday during my jail visit with her..."my addiction makes me think I'm soo slick like butter". They truly believe they are getting over on everyone.you sound like you're doing the right thing by not giving up but not enabling. Big hugs to you today!