Yeah I was trying no contact but I called him tonight. He's in a sober living only because he got kicked out of his other house, I don't think he really wants to get sober. I know the saying "let go and let god"- I was in recovery before and know about alcoholism, but it's hard because I feel like he owes it to me, especially when I found out he recently went to the bar and bought everyone in there drinks and obviously drank a lot himself. The reality is that I probably will never see the money and I have to accept it- learn to let go, but that is the hardest thing in the world for me to do. Anyway, thanks for your input I really appreciate all input at this point.