I would rather be with someone - better than being alone
That is a perfect statement on a major portion of the problem.
We come in with big gaping holes in our souls looking for someone to "fix" us.
Getting into a relationship with someone who has not progressed very far along the process of healing can have consequences.
One morning she may look over and realize she is NOT Fixed
That you have NOT done your job!
If that happens you may discover that you just THOUGHT you knew what
Restless, Irritable and Discontent was.
As for the Year? It was just picked, stems from the suggestion that you do not make any major decisions or life changes the first year because YOU are changing so much