Originally Posted by
Mountainmanbob 
was feeling uptight knowing next to no one there
I have the opposite problem.
I will know most of the people at the wedding. Being a heavy drinker for the last 25 years, these people have never seen me at a social event sober.
I don't want to deal with questions about why I am not drinking and/or be a stick in the mud while everyone else is doing shots, making toasts and getting hammered.
I know I am building a lot of it up in my mind. I keep telling myself that this event is about the people getting married - no one really gives a $hit what I will be doing.