Thread: Is it fair???
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Old 01-23-2005, 02:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Audrey72
He has no friends anymore and I don't think he will call on his family?
Why is this? Is this a consequence of his drinking?

Enabling is not allowing the alcoholic to face the consequences of their behaviour.

I know how tough this is, hon. I've been there. The most loving thing we can do is allow them to hit their bottom. This is the only way that they will hurt enough to make sobriety a better option.

Take care

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