Jumping back towards the start . . . .
Originally Posted by
Jend719 
She also has borderline personality disorder.
May want to consider that the BPD is the "real" problem and the addiction(s) are just various self-medication for that.
dunno if you have much background, but if not, this is a good place to start >>>
Borderline Personality Disorder - Support group for families and relationship partners
They have a "Parents of" section, as well.
Best to you.