I am so sorry and so thankful I don't live in your state. My attorney advised me yesterday that it is not nearly as common as I thought for parents to get 50/50 here. I about cried from relief.
You stated in your other post that he drives with your children in the car drunk. Can you follow him even one time and call the police and have him arrested? I guess that was my first thought as to what I would do. Then he would be in jail. I know in this state if you are driving drunk w/a child in the car it is a much more severe punishment. Just a thought.
I am so sorry you are going through this. I am praying for you and your family. Hugs!