If I were you, I would seriously reconsider having a relationship with this individual. I'm married to an A and even with 4 kids no difference is being made. He has put our children in danger by driving them while drunk to various functions. I now have to make sure he is never behind the wheel with our kids--that is on me so I am always having to plan ahead. So, can you imagine having a child with your A? The two of you haven't been together very long. The longer you're together with time invested trying to care for this person the harder it will be to make a break and the more damage that will be done to you emotionally.