Sorry you are going through this Broken. His drinking sounds a lot like mine toward the end. I never got in any trouble or got crazy when I drank. I actually thought because of that I did not have a problem. At least not one big enough to quit. It would have made me angry if I was challenged on it. The damage it did to my brain totally twisted my thinking. He doesn't see things clearly so there is no way for you to make sense of it. He will have to be quit for awhile before he gets back his ability to reason. You were right to be concerned but he doesn't see it that way.