I know right...I think it was my late Dad and Grandma looking over them.... The complication is just like what NWGRITS said, I can only ban her when I get a court order. The school have been very helpfull, promising to stall her if this situation was to arise. Unfortunately, our 1st court hearing is Nov 18th. That is when I should have the court order. I am seriously contemplating not letting them to school until then, I know its a bit extreme, but I cant imagine AW taking them.