Hi guys! It took me a while of being on this site and attending AlAnon before I figured something pretty important to me out.
That is, I don't need someone else to make me complete. I am enough just as I am. When I turned my attention to making me better rather than trying to figure out what my AW was thinking I started to heal. From her, from the pain, from my Codie craziness, from all sorts of stuff that had dominated my thinking for so long.
So, it does get better and if you work a program it gets better faster. I have developed self esteem and I have learned to love me simply because I'm worth it.
Your friend,