Originally Posted by
BackToSquareOne 
Isn't it a bit of a contradiction to make amends for a disease that you were powerless over. How can you believe that on the one hand while also believing you must make amends for things done caused by the disease?
Even if you unintentionally caused someone pain just acknowledging it would go along way. Maybe it's a woman thing. Don't say sorry. I want to know that you understand how you hurt me. I'm not in AA either so I haven't done any steps. I did have a talk with my daughter about checking out on her though.