Often times when people speak to us they are speaking to themselves. Perhaps her comments to you were more for her to hear then you. None the less they struck a nerve with you. As you quickly approach your 2 month mark, of course you are going to question your motives and wonder what the hell you're doing. Just keep moving forward. I know you know that you are doing what you need to do. Don't let one woman at a meeting keep you from coming back, maybe, just maybe, you have something to learn from her and vise versa! The universe works this way
Keep strong and hold your head up high, no more driving with your eyes closed!