Hi Bluechair, I'm so happy for you that the pass is going well. I think it was wise of you not to tell his parents he was home just quite yet, give him some breathing room before he gets smothered with a mothers love. Too bad about the stomach issues, he does live in a hospital, exposed to germs and the flu, etc, however, I would get a stomach ache if I ate too may cookies too! Snooping is difficult to stop, especially if you have been repeatedly lied to, plus it's very tempting, you want him to be well sooo badly. I don't snoop too much, but I ask WAY too many questions, I must work on that. Yes I do worry about you, I just want you to be healthy. Take care of yourself, don't be alone. Try a narcon meeting and of course we are hear for all the support you can stand ( ha!) be and stay well, TF