I think we need to plan obviously, otherwise nothing would get done, but we need to also accept when things don't go to plan and learn to 'go with the flow'. I'm a great believer in everything happens for a reason. Things don't necessarily make sense at the time, but if we learn to trust in ourselves and that we will be ok whatever, then we will.
Having said that this is day 3 of no chocolate and nothing much makes sense at the moment!!
Have a good day guys xxx