I'm sorry, I went off the original topic. If you're not happy with your therapist, then you need no other reason to find another one. If you don't feel like you are getting what you need to help yourself, then so be it. As for her remarks about your AH cheating... None of us were there, so we don't get the benefit of true context, tone, body language. However, given your past posts about your AH, I doubt her mention of it was merely a stab in the dark. Honestly. He seems to be so fixated on sex that I would venture at some.point he had enough and went off and found someone who give it to him. That is in no way a reflection on you. It just is what it is when you're dealing with an A.