Originally Posted by
Summerpeach 
The sex talk in front of your child was not appropiate for sure, but it takes two to have a conversation which you participated in. If you thought it was wrong, why answer your H and why not say "we can talk about this later" or "this is not appropriate"
And knowing the field of mental health care myself and since all of us here aree not privy to all the words exchanged with you and your therapist and I suspect she is not taking a shot in the dark with this one.
He travels, sounds like he wants to talk about sex, you're not giving him sex, he's a man <----- all recipes for one to cheat.
I think you're playing the victim here a little bit
So, let's say I am playing the victim here, can you expand on that a little? I only ask because I know it's a huge character defect for codies and for me and, obviously, I'm looking to grow out of this.
As for my therapist, she's mentioned the cheating thing before especially when AH was accusing me of cheating on him. Honestly, I think there's too much familiarity between us, if that makes sense, and I feel like we're not doing enough work on my issues. I sometimes go there feeling like she's just a friend that I'm venting to and I'm looking for more deep stuff at this point. She's also not taking my insurance anymore and I'm paying out of of pocket because I haven't met my insurance deductible so it's getting expensive to pay to just vent for an hour. It's just hard to think of moving on after 18 months with her but I'm kind of in a stalled place right now and I'm soooo ready to move on and grow!