I think to compare, that seems normal human nature to do. But to judge...no one should do that, it's not fair and it certainly isn't right. Sobriety is accomplished differently by everyone who is trapped in addiction. My children are judged all the time and that hurts them, makes them paranoid and weak. I think if the people who judge others should take a long look in their back yards, they may be surprised and feel foolish to find addiction may have touch their lives too. Have a happy nonjudgmental weekend everyone! TF