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Old 10-09-2013, 08:22 PM
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kadidee
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Johnny, so glad to 'see' you and that you're feeling better. Wow on the negotiating over the mattress--I'm so bad at that kind of thing. And woo-hoo Florida trip! You sound really good.

w2r, is that you skipping around in a bunny suit as you head to bed?

Elseware, way to go on day 40! Is it just me or is time passing by really quickly?

I have adjusted my sobriety attitude to a (hopefully) calmer, more take it as it comes notch. I'm not going to try to fix everything right now (i.e., unresolved issues over marriage). I keep meditating on that quote about forgiveness that Elseware posted..."forgiveness comes about when you stop trying to make it be different than what it was."

It dawned on me tonight that back in March/April I felt so out of control with the drinking and was desperate to just not drink for one night because I was exhausted from it all, but I couldn't even do that. And now I can enjoy nights sober. That brings a lot of peace of mind.
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