well it sounds like he is getting help before things had damaged your marriage beyond repair. If you don't mind me asking, what was his DOC? My husband and I now keep money separate. I can afford to pay all of the bills on my own, which takes some of the stress away from me if he does start using again and gets crazy with money. My husband is also in a suboxone program which I highly recommend if he has an opiate addiction of any kind. Another thing to think about is, depending on his habits, do you need to get tested for Hep C/B and HIV. Even without sharing needles you can contract virus' from sharing drug cookers, rinse water and cotton. I don't want to scare you, but it's better to know and get early treatment. THANK GOD, I never contracted anything. I hope I don't get any backlash for this, but I always bought my husband needles and we still have them (out of sight) where he knows where they are so that if he does decide he's going to use again, he doesn't put me at risk.