Originally Posted by
Raider 
It's seems unfair of me to ask him not to drink around me but I just don't know what else to do
I don't think it is unfair at all. If they care about you getting better, they should keep their drinking for when they go out with friends, or have a set night or two. There are many compromises. If I felt uncomfortable with my partner drinking around me, they would absolutely not drink around me.