My partner drinks occasionally and most of the time not around me, and that does not bother me right now. I was a hard liquor drinker, and they drink mostly wine. It is not seeing or being around alcohol that makes me want to drink, it is more my inner anxieties and habits. I am no longer going to drink, and I want to learn how to be around it. My resolution is firm - there will not be another drink in my mouth. I was the one with the problem, and I need to solve it and use my new-found willpower to allow my partner the luxury of having that moderate drink every now and again. Of course, this may change, and it is probably not an OK situation for other recovering problem-drinkers and alcoholics. Just sharing
