My husband left Monday for a 9-10 month faith based treatment program...it's 3 hours away...I am angry and hurt at the destruction he has caused however I do know that it is the addiction/drugs and not my husband. Sober, he is a wonderful man. I know that his using is only to cover pain and hurts that need to be addressed. He is seeking that help now. I truly believe he is capable of overcoming this if he puts in the work. Am I being unrealistic or am I just a total codependent? Am I the idiot here?
