Antonchigurth,
Believe it or not you have the ability to change the channel any time you want. Maybe to CBS - survivor!!! Survived a ill fated relationship from an addict who does not want to seek help.
Sounds real good for him to say he wants to keep his job to be responsible for the debt he put you BOTH in but the truth is probably more along the lines of.....the job provides $ for his drugs and to continue doing exactly what he has been doing.
Nothing changes if someone doesn't change and it doesn't appear he is the one to do that right now so that leaves YOU.