I'm gonna shamelessly steal from my fellow Mod Ann here cos I think she said it best
Just a reminder to one and all that respect for all members is a requirement for posting here.
No need to debate when you disagree, no need to compare notes to see who is "right".
Just share your personal experience, strength and hope, and share your support for the person who began this thread...and remember that each of us is at a different stage of recovery and our experiences vary, so compassion and support are what matters most.
Thank you for understanding, now let's all get back to making this work.
All I can do is share my experience - my truth even - but I aim to share in a loving way, making sure I give the person I'm posting to the respect we all deserve.
If a thread sticks in your craw the best thing to do is not visit the thread
and now...lets get back to Cow
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