Yes. A few times ive had conversations with a sober or more of hungover ah where I explained my fears and thoughts. Not hateful or yelling but more emotional sad where I explained the impact to our kids to his family to me and to himself and that hes not him when hes drinking. That i love him and want to be with him but i want a sober partner and our kids deserve one. AlsolWhat happens the longer it goes on for the alcoholic and family. Ah broke down cried and the few times he quit for a time being. I could tell I got through to him but its not just about my words its about his thoughts and perserverance and dedication but I think it did help to get him to recognize a problem.
It was sort of a 1 person intervention lol
But sometimes talks backfire and sometimes not talking says more