a sub. I was suppose to go see him today but I didn't. thanks for all ur responses. im glad I found this place. Im trying my best to do everything out here for my daughter and I. I want him to come home and we just start our life together and I want him to do what he says hes gunna like get a job and such. I do miss him but I don't miss the addict. I really thought this was it he said hes done running and being away from us. im scared that hes gunna go to court next time and the judge is gunna send him away for a few yrs upstate and its gunna crush my daughter and I. im just so upset about all this ya know. do you think I should talk to the rehab?