Originally Posted by
dejavue 
I need a lie detector.
You have a great one built in - its called "intuition". But it takes practice and life lessons to get it perfectly fine tuned.
I'm 41, and I think I have finally got mine calibrated enough to weed through all the frogs to find my prince charming! But its been a lot of work getting to where I am now.
And I can assure you - our intuition can work amazingly well when we let it and trust ourselves to make good decisions.