I agree with lizwig but I'm sure he will kick and scream like a baby when he doesn't get his way. Possibly tell you he wants to leave you!! Even though you have done nothing wrong. While in active addiction (still wanting to get high) their feelings are unreliable and manipulative ....not real!!
Make a what will you put up with list! Then stick to it. When active addicts don't get what they want they turn into crying mean children.
sorry.