coke is out of the system in about THREE days....then there are no physical w/ds....it's all mental. without a program of some sort, or an absolute COMMITTMENT to not using again EVER, the mind stays stuck on cravings.
none of that is an excuse for a bad mood....he can go for a walk, mow the yard, paint the nursery, do something NICE for YOU. not sit there and pout and flounce an be a jerk. if he can't handle THIS how on earth is he going to handle a newborn, and the crying, and the feedings, lack of sleep, colic, ear infections, someone other than HIM being king baby????? guess you better buy a lot of tomatoes.
you continue to excuse bad behavior. you continue to ACCEPT bad behavior.