Originally Posted by
Yurt 
Uhmm, could we be married to the same man? Mine is usually out by 7:30 or so. Tonight is the exception. One question...Does your husband believe that he has any sort of problem?
He knows he's an A. I don't think he believes alcoholism has anything to do with his many problems. His finances are better than before, but still makes very little money. He's in tech school too, so I give him credit for sticking with a strange work schedule and school now.
Detaching in the same house is difficult, but I do it by doing more outside the house alone. I get massages (ooh lala fancy right), taking a dance class, some Wednesdays I go to the movies. Plus he doesn't shop with me so making time for ME has made living with him more bearable. He's a very kind man, but the drinking has ruined his life and I'm determined it won't ruin mine.