I accepted bad behavior that was not really directed at me either but still had me feeling very anxious. But of course I made excuses and figured it would pass. It would for a while, then a relapse started it all over again.
The funny part is my husband was not overly understanding about my hormonal issues. He would never have tolerated me acting like such a "crazy" person. That's when I realized how "out of balance" my marriage had become. My norm had become very sick and distorted without me even realizing it.