Isn't that something. I recently left too and my AH is drinking more. He doesn't know I can see his credit card transactions and can see how often he goes to the liquor store. It is sad. I hope your A gets sober and lives a grand life. It seems we work so hard to get them sober but, as we have always been told, they are the only ones that can make that decision. It is frustrating and confusing when it takes such a drastic measure to get them to see and often times by that time it is too late to repair the damage done. I am stress free, no worries upon coming home, I am happy. Sadly, I don't miss him. I wish you all the best in your new life moving forward!