Originally Posted by
hissycrissy 
I need out of this hell.
A LOT of us on the F and F board have been in a similar hell, I know I have. A lot of us too have managed to get away and rebuild our confidence and our lives. You can do it too, we are here to support you and yes sometimes we might sound a bit rough and we pull no punches. It is because we do not want people to make the same mistakes and go through the misery we did.
Because we are strangers, we have no hidden agenda, we don't have to people please or be worried of hurting your feelings like a best friend would. Here, you will get honest feedback from third parties who understand but have no stakes in your relationship.
It is good you reached out for help. I hope you keep posting even if sometimes we sound a bit "tough"