Originally Posted by
DrunkTx 
If in your shoes I would simply say - I saw the pop ups, it is making me incredibly anxious but I also know that I love you. I can't force your loyalty, but I hope that everything we have had up until today can help us navigate tomorrow. Just tell him the truth with no expectation, and he just might surprise you.
This piece of advice was incredibly helpful, DrunkTx. I wrote a calm email that told him what I saw and reminded him how much I loved him, and he came home. We spent the entire evening talking it out, and we are going to be fine. More than fine.
I am proud to say I can do hard things, even sober. That was a pretty big crisis to navigate through, and if I do say so myself, I handled it pretty well.
If I wasn't on a pink cloud before, I feel like I'm on one now.
