I apologize if I my post came across as harsh! I have been single for two years specifically because I did not want anyone to see that I had a problem, which my last BF did immediately. The pressure I felt from him to be sober only pushed me further into drinking. You can only get sober on YOUR terms. Let him know that in order for you to succeed in sobriety, you need SUPPORT and ENCOURAGEMENT, and that chastising you will only make matters worse. You cannot change the past, but you can change the future! Remember: serious people do serious things. Best of luck!