Pravchaw, your new pic is very deep and intense--spot on for how you are feeling.
My RAD left rehab after 28 days when she had funding for 90. But she went to intensive outpatient right after for four more months. I think it was probably a better experience for her than inpatient. She is fiercely independent and quite sensitive, so the random, changing roommate thing, the structure, etc. was a stressor. She worked the program, did NA homework, got individual counseling, and had to have random drug tests to stay in it. Don't despair yet. Just be happy he has agreed to something! And keep you mind focused on you. So glad you are going to see a therapist. Mine has helped me immensely. Take care.