Originally Posted by
stella27 
I spent so many years (14) married to a narcissistic alcoholic
Oh man, I've been with mine for almost a decade, and our whole marriage is in the beginning stages of crubling...and it's excruciating. I'm so thankful to hear that others have made it through to the other side. I'm in the most difficult struggle of my life just trying to accept that he is who he is and that I can't do anything to change him into the caring, honest, trustworthy person I want him to be. Thanks for this post.