Missy, do you know what the term gaslighting means?
It is a term that came from a movie called Gas Light. It is a very common tactic that abusers use to disarm their victims and it is very serious. To have your reality constantly undermined and to be told that your perceptions are incorrect can cause you to feel like you are losing your grasp.
Please reach out for help. Do not let this man victimize you anymore.