I don't really know how to approach this... If you are saying that this all happened but that your husbands trying to twist it to make you believe that it never happened then I'd say that he is trying to manipulate you. Were you both drunk or both sober or what? I don't really understand the story but I get the feeling that you need some sort of support and I wouldn't like u to stay in the shadows if there's something we can all do to help you.... Let us know
we are here if u need us to be.