Lillamy is dead on....johnny on the spot. GoingAlone...follow your heart for awhile until you gather the strength to do what we old timers know has to be done. My husband loved our family too...it's just that eventually....the alcohol won out...I - like you let him be and concentrated on my household duties after work and dug in with the homework and laundry and dinner ect.....then it became my responsibility to do the outside chores as well and cutting 7 acres wasn't fun especially after dark...can you see the very real painting I am painting for you yet?? Just keep your eyes and your ears OPEN at all times....and put away at least a thousand or two for what will be one day very necessary to have tucked away. Click on any of our names to read our histories okay you can learn alot from some of our personal stories...welcome here to sober recovery.
Janitw