Hello karthur and welcome to SR.
I hadn't ever joined a forum before either. I just googled for advice on alcoholism as I knew I needed some answers and didn't have a clue where to find them. The moderation approach had failed and I wasn't sure whether I could quit completely without help.
I'm 15 months sober now and SR has been a huge and vital part of my journey. The advice and support I have received here has enabled me to change my life around.
This is a warm and welcoming community and we all help each other along. The moderators do a fantastic job of ensuring it runs smoothly, and any 'weirdos' are soon dealt with....
It would be nice to have you join us.